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              During this time, we must also become mindful     that during that time I had been mean to him.
              of our tone of voice. We have heard the saying    As I listened and thought back to the incident, I
              over and over again, “It’s not what you say, it’s   realized, he was correct. I had been mean to him.
              how you say it.” Saying the right thing - to others   And it had all occurred in my word choice and
              and ourselves - can be compromised by using       tone of voice!
              the wrong tone.

                                                                Aargh!
              A conversation with my boyfriend recently         Although he told me he forgave me because he
              reminded me of these two lessons.                 knew I was going through something at that
                                                                time, I must admit, I was not proud of myself to
              He and I were discussing an incident which had    realize I had slipped up and used the wrong word
              occurred a few weeks ago. He informed me          choice and tone of voice with my honey.






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