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JessW
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« on: November 17, 2006, 08:01:28 pm »

Well, as some of you may remember I have certainly had an entertaining time with employment and lack of ot this year.

Now, I have a new scenario to sort out.  Here goes.

I have (today) had a first  interview for a lead pa at a firm of surveyors paying similar to the last job I had (which was good!).  I like the sound of the job and it is expansive and more middle management than my previous experience.

I have also today attended a second interview with another sort of similar firm but larger for an assistant to commercial director with similar salary and just as expansive.

Question.  How do I chose (if offered both) which job to go for?  I would love to do both of them, which is impractical as well as impossible, but have no idea how to chose.

I know there are people out there who have had the same sort of experience.  Can you advise me of how to judge which job I should chose?

Many thanks

Jess

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« Reply #1 on: November 18, 2006, 02:18:41 pm »

I have faced similar dilemmas. First and foremost, until the job is offered, there is no need for you to make this comparison, so each job should be considered on its own merits right now.

Make sure that you are comparing apples and apples.

Write up a list of the benefits of both location (and I mean physical benefits - such as their specifics of insurance coverage, vacation time, tuition reimbursement policy, support of professional development, salary, etc.). If necessary, after the job is offered, if they haven't yet provided this information, request that they send it to you for review before you make your decision.

Write up a side by side comparison of job functions and possible future expansion. Review this list to see if one job has more immediate satisfaction, more appealing responsibilities, etc. Then look to the long term. Which one has more potential for long term growth? Which one will be better for your resume (i.e. prestige factor, title difference, etc.)?

Then make up a list of intangible values, the things that will make your life better (or worse) (shorter commute, better liked industry, size of company versus your personal preference, co-worker's personalities, summer hours, likely boredom factor with the role, etc.).

When I was faced with this dilemma (offered a job at one company with a second interview pending from another company that week), I told the first offer that I wanted to complete interviewing, so I would be making an educated decision on the best fit for me and I asked for a week to consider. They agreed to my request and I ultimately ended up accepting their position.

Once you have these worked out, you will probably find that there are more checkmarks in favor of one position than another. However, before you make a final decision, especially if they are close, identify possible opportunities to sweeten the pot. If one job seems like your ideal except that they only offer xyz and you want abc, the negotiation phase is your time to explain that you are looking for abc and can they meet your need. What modifications you make to their offer, make sure you get them in writing. I think you are in the UK, so contracts are common there, so you might have done that anyway, but in the US written offer letters aren't as common as we might think.

Good luck with your decision, but I would just caution you again, until you have two offers, you DON'T have two offers and should consider the merits individually. Don't turn down one offer, expecting another to come through, since it may not materialize (ask me how I know!). Smiley

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« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2006, 10:53:16 am »

Jess, everything that Marie said is valid, but for me what's more important than anything is the relationship with my boss.  The job I was in before this one stacked up completely on paper - it was more money, a larger more structured organisation than anything I had been used to (which is what I thought I wanted), lots of room for growth etc.  The one thing that was missing was I didn't 'click' with the manager I worked with - he was a lovely man, no problems there, but the fit just wasn't quite right.  I left within 3 months, something I have never done before.

When I compare it to this job (where I've been for nearly 7 years), I knew from the moment I met him at interview that it was the right move because we just bonded from the word go.

I think that the boss-PA relationship is absolutely crucial and that's always been the decider for me.  Sure, you can be perfectly happy in a role and do a good professional job for practically any boss, but when you click it just makes everything so much easier.

This probably doesn't help much, sorry!

QB

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« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2006, 11:43:06 am »

Great advice and feedback here Jess.

I would say same about clicking with boss, also culture of companies, and long term security.  I have had a few hiccups of late so the last thing that I would be wanting is to lose yet another job and at my age that was my main priority when job hunting recently.  The dynamics of all of this have to be right.  It is important for me to have relationships with people in work.  We have a big social culture here and being one of the company PA's you have to be involved in the organsation of events.  If you just want to go to work each day and not get involved then that is another aspect you have to consider.

Let us know if any offers come your way!

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« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2006, 08:30:33 pm »

Imagine being told that you are not offered job A, then imagine being told that you are not offered job B. Which scenario would make you most unhappy? I sort things out this way sometimes. I hope it makes sense.

I confess that I picked up this way of thinking from an episode of Friends, if anyone thinks this sounds familiar. When Rachel thought she was pregnant, Phoebe told her the pregnancy test was negative, and Rachel was saddened. She thought that she didn't want to be pregnant, but then realized that she did.


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