Perhaps you should ask bossie why she is doing this, i.e., why did you ask me where I was in the deposits if you had just run the query yourself? I don't think that is unreasonable, provided you are calm and cool and professional.
If she hasn't been paranoid before and has now begun to constantly check up on you, something probably has happened. OR--she has lost funding for your position and is trying to get you to leave (knowing that this sort of micromanaging will irk you), rather than terminate you face to face like a professional.
Good luck on this...
