Browse Forum Recent Topics  
 

Welcome to the DeskDemon Forums
You will need to Login in or Register to post a message. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.

Pages: [1]   Go Down
  Print  
Author Topic: Next two weeks  (Read 4044 times)
susan silva
Administrator
Hero Member
*****
Posts: 614



View Profile
« on: July 26, 2010, 08:21:15 pm »

If anyone private messages me, it may take a bit to get back to you.  I am going to visit my parents. I will be on everyday, but my resources are limited up there (my iphone doesn't get reception, files maybe here in California, I will be on less hours...) 

Here is a little sharing of my situation because I am really concerned about  my dad.  Maybe someone has gone through something similar.   I was going for my Dad's 70th birthday party,  a year a 1/2 ago he was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer.  He battles it, yes it has slowed him down, lost his hair but is generally fine.  Last Wednesday though he went to the hospital with shortness of breath.  It turns out it was almost a heart attack (2 arteries are 80% closed) so they put in 2 stents that day.   From what everyone said, he should be out the next day.   Well, almost a week later he is still hospitalized  he is having trouble breathing when he walks.  His heart goes erratic.  Does anyone know if trouble breathing after is normal?   I talked to him two days ago, and he sounded fine, then yesterday, lying in bed he sounded like he had just run a marathon and was breathing hard.  If anyone has has a relative that has had stents or a heart attack, how was the recovery?
Logged
Cathy S
Hero Member
*****
Posts: 638



View Profile
« Reply #1 on: July 26, 2010, 09:33:44 pm »

I was going for my Dad's 70th birthday party,  a year a 1/2 ago he was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer.  He battles it, yes it has slowed him down, lost his hair but is generally fine.  Last Wednesday though he went to the hospital with shortness of breath.  It turns out it was almost a heart attack (2 arteries are 80% closed) so they put in 2 stents that day.   From what everyone said, he should be out the next day. 

Those sound like the recovery times quoted generally for angioplasty and stents - whether more than one at the same time delays recovery isn't clear.

Quote
 Well, almost a week later he is still hospitalized  he is having trouble breathing when he walks.  His heart goes erratic.  Does anyone know if trouble breathing after is normal?   I talked to him two days ago, and he sounded fine, then yesterday, lying in bed he sounded like he had just run a marathon and was breathing hard.  If anyone has has a relative that has had stents or a heart attack, how was the recovery?

Your Dad will heal and mend differently to almost everyone else ... not least because for 18 months his body has been dealing with cancer.  Without knowing what the treatment for that has been he may well have lower resistance to deal with new things and probably will need longer recovery times.  Is the weather hot and muggy - because that won't help either?

Whilst cancer treatments are fantastic very often, they do not come without side effects - a colleague of mine had Chemo following breast cancer surgery and the drugs in her chemo regime have affected her short term memory and her moods.

The best people to tell you the facts are your Dad and his medical staff and the important thing to remember while you travel to be with your parents is your Dad did not have a heart attack - for which the recovery would likely have been much more protracted.  While you are thinking about your parents and getting yourself to them I am sure we will all be keeping you in our thoughts and hearts and wishing you all well.

Take care and safe journey

Cathy
Logged
ControlledChaos
Sr. Member
****
Posts: 306



View Profile
« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2010, 03:22:58 pm »

Susan

I can really sympathise with you as my dad has been battling prostate cancer for the last 2 1/2 years.  His was only discovered when he stumbled off a bus which caused a vertebrae in his back to crumble which in turn pushed on his spinal cord and started to cause paralysis.  It turns out that this problem with the spine is a secondary cancer to the primary cancer - prostate cancer.  He found that with all of the drugs that were being pumped into his body he was very susceptible to all minor ailments going around and twice he was rushed into hospital with breathing problems.  He has just finised a 10 x 3 weekly cycle of chemotherapy of which the last 3 sessions were the worst and at times he really struggled to breathe especially as it coincided with the really hot (well hot for us) weather that we were having. 

From what you have said it does sound as though the battle with the cancer has slighly delayed the normal recovery time but I know from experience that when they don't recover as quickly as you or I would or we would expect them to then we tend to panic just in case there is some other underlying reason.

Wishing you and your dad all the best and have a safe journey.


I wish you and your dad all the best
Logged

You will need to Login in or Register to post a message.

Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Powered by SMF 1.1.9 | SMF © 2006-2009, Simple Machines LLC