Message #41234

[countrigal]

Y'all, let's keep things in perspective.  Dharma had a valid statement, and one that any of us might have made if it wasn't Jade making the original post.  Those of us who've been around a while know each other fairly well on here, and that enters in when we post.  Dharma hasn't been around as long, and therefore made her statement.  Let's not attack Dharma for that.

Jade, it's been obvious in your last postings that you are not the least happy with your position, and the stress of the 55mile drive each way is just adding to it.  This will begin to take a toll on your health if you don't take it into your control.  I'd type up a resignation letter and hand it to bossie.  Give yourself 2-4 weeks to get get your desk in as much order as you can before leaving and then walk away from this headache.  Heck, to get through the holidays you could easily get a part-time job during or through the holidays, which would add some income and help take up the slack between what your sales are in your "off-work" job brings in and what you were making at this job.  And it would let you continue to search for a job closer to home that would possibly make you happier.  An unhappy employee makes for an unhappy work-place and home environment -- improve yours yourself.  Bossie may be answering to someone higher up the food chain and therefore being a real b*tch, but her attitude and watchfulness are wearing on you, and it's you that you have to worry about.  Cut out now, while you still have your health and the positive attitude that will carry you into another position.  Don't wait till you're worn down.

CountriGal
Peer Moderator