Message #46821

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I find that I have pretty good eye contact when it comes to dealing with important subject matter like the bank or work related situations.  I at least have learned to look towards the person I am talking to (I even do that when I am on the phone so that I can practice) so they know that I am talking with them.

I have noticied more and more that at the bank that we use, I have to fight with people or things around me to get my point across.  There is one specific person at our bank that I will not talk with because she is constantly looking at other people and things around her instead of looking at me while I am talking or she is talking.  I do not expect perfect eye contact but at least looking in my direction and not looking at others or other things.