Message #68039

[gee4]

I totally disagree as the statement that was said and the language that was used was totally unacceptable.  Saying someone is "fu__d up" is just not acceptable in any working environment.

If it was untrue then the second co-worker should not have repeated it but by doing so, they got themselves involved also.

A very dangerous game is being played and not one I would want to be in the middle of.  It sounds very much like one co-worker gossiping about another.  If it was a manager who had a problem it would be dealt with properly eg. brought in, sat down and discussed, not said in passing.

Muffin I guess you will use your own instincts here and do what is right for you.